Jennifer N. Bilby
January 16, 1986 - December 1, 2024
"May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind be always at your back May the sunshine warm your face, the rain fall soft upon your fields.."
Obituary of Jennifer N. Bilby
Jennifer N. Bilby, age 38. Entered into rest suddenly on December 1st, 2024. Born January 16,1986 in Newfane NY. She was the daughter of David Upton Jr, and the late Charlene Upton. Beloved Mother of Ethan, Chelsey, Madison, Caylee and Corey jr. Wife of Corey Bilby. Sister to David(Cassandra), Amanda, Timothy(Kristy), Kaitlyn(Jon), Jordan and Julianne. Aunt to Shane, Christopher, Shyanne, Cayden, Addison, Codiegh, Seth, Shaylynn, Zachary, Cammeryn, Makenna, Arianna, Nolan, and Elianna.
We can all remember her as the amazing person she was, with the voice of an angel, and always being her silly self. We can all cherish the moments and memories we have with her. She loved nothing more than her kids, and family. She loved bingo, and had a passion for nursing school. She will forever be deeply missed and never forgotten. May she rest in peace.
Friends and family may visit Sunday December 8th, from 1-4 pm at the Taylor & Reynolds Funeral Home, 70 Niagara Street, Lockport NY, where Services will be held Monday at 11:00 am. Flowers are welcome.
Can’t believe you’re really gone sis, you will be for ever missed. Soak up all that time with mom until we see each other again. I am Truly sorry for the tough love I gave you. I really hope you know how much I Truly love you fly high beautiful.
Jennifer you really were an amazing mom and person. You were fun loving and a riot to be around. You may have hit a hard hill in life and for that were sorry. But we will never stop remembering the real you the true you the fearless you the happy you the funny you . We love you jen and you will be deeply missed.
Sis why u leave me like that!!! Just gone girl ima miss u it was always the 3 of us I had a real friend I wish u would have had the strength I did to do the right thing we just had this talk wtf! I slept next to u everyday for months I can’t grasp ur gone! We just talked how we wanted to get right for our kids n just like that god took u from us man ima miss u so much I missed ur call the other day n it’s killing me! All I have left is our memories I know ur not stressing and being depressed anymore ur with ur mom and ur happy but we needed you too!!! Who ima call to tell my business too now? This ain’t fair why u do this yo us! Life ain’t fair but I hope u watch over ur dad n family n help me get thru this as well I love u bilby! Fly high beautiful n smile baby ur with ur mom now show my signs ur around or something i just wanna know ur good i love u ill see u again one day!
Love u sis I’m lost for words life really isn’t easy at all now it’s even gonna be harder not having u around to drive me nuts or to irritate me or get on my nerves but those will be memories I will never forget say hi to mom I am gonna miss u love u sis
Dave & Family, My heart hurts for all of you. I am so sorry. Praying for each of you. Love, Sheila
I’m going to miss seeing your beautiful face when I take my walks. I’ll never forget your smile, and your beautiful singing voice.
To my big sister, my second mom growing up. I will forever miss your smile and the kind of person you used to be. Such a fun person and happy spirit to be around, always knew how to have fun, even through the worst times. Growing up, you were the one I looked up to, the one I wanted to be like.. I used to sit in the living room listening to you sing from upstairs in your room, thinking how cool I was to be your little sister, and one day I would sing just like you. Anyone who truly knew you, will always remember that voice, the voice of angel singing back to back Dixie chick songs ❤️ the one who got up every morning just to do my hair for school, everywhere I went you were there. I just wish life would’ve been kinder to you, but know we will continue to watch over the kids, and make sure they are okay with all of us. I know mom was right there waiting for you, and a hug from momma can heal all. Continue to watch over all of us, the both of you ❤️ Forever our guardian angels 🙏 rest easy big sis. We love you always.
There’s so much I could say about my mom and I know that everyone who knew her would agree…she was one of a kind.
My mom was a good mom who loved us deeply. Even when things weren’t easy for her, she never stopped trying to be there for us.
She had a big heart and loved I’ll others. Whether she was at home, at work or out and about, she had this special way of caring for others, making them feel seen and important.
But like everyone, my mom had her own struggles too. Life wasn’t always easy for her. She faced her own challenges and had to fight through things that we may never fully understand.
I know she wasn’t perfect, but she was the perfect mom for me. She was the one I could count on for comfort when I needed it. The one who would give me advice… even when I didn’t always take it and I always knew that, no matter what, she was doing her best. That’s something I’ll always cherish.
Although her time with us was cut short, the impact she made on everyone who knew her will last a lifetime. Her legacy is carried forward in the love she shared, the lessons she taught, and the kindness she spread. She will always be remembered as a woman of great strength, compassion, and grace. An irreplaceable presence whose memory will continue to guide and inspire all who were lucky enough to know her.
I know her love and the lessons she taught me will stay with me forever. And I hope that as I grow, I can be as strong, kind, and loving as she was, because she was truly an amazing person. I love you, Mom. I always will.